A child’s deepest wound often comes from a parent’s inability to apologize. Version 10’s code was flawed: "I did my best. You turned out fine." Version 11’s update is revolutionary: "I hurt you. Please tell me how. I will sit in the discomfort." This version is better because it prioritizes the child’s reality over the parent’s ego.
The quality of this initial attachment significantly influences how individuals form platonic or romantic relationships later in life. The Complexity of Conditional vs. Unconditional Love parental love finished version 11 better